Is sex a responsibility in a relationship?
For the sake of this question let's say that we are talking about a married couple. If one person wants sex and the other doesn't, what is the correct course of action?
1. Have sex anyway, whether you want it or not. It is your duty.
2. Have a talk about what is going on and why the spouse does not want sex. If you resolve the problem, then have sex.
3. Just accept that your spouse does not like sex and do without.
4. Just accept that your spouse does not like sex and have an outside lover.
5. Seek counseling to determine if there are issues that keep the spouse from wanting sex considering that 90% of sexual desire comes from the mind and attitude.
6. Evaluate what you are doing when asking for or initiating sex. Is it done with the idea of having a wonderful intimate experience or is it just to get your orgasm out of the way? Have you ever asked what the other spouse likes, wants or needs?
7. Some other option. Stay connected for more updates about this on VERYCONCERN
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